Comments on: Social Networking Tip – Social Networking Sites Cannot Make Introverts

By: Marty

Marty — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 00:12:55 +0000

As an extrovert I have learned much from Pat. I deal with introverts everyday in sales and to understand them better changes my approach and expectations.

By: Pat

Pat — Thu, 14 May 2009 00:39:53 +0000

I liked Jim example of an extrovert as well. Helps me understand that everyone is unique

By: Pat

Pat — Mon, 11 May 2009 21:49:29 +0000

Your example of how extroverts don't become introverts because they focus on their work and get it done - love it and how it makes the case stronger! Thanks Jim.

By: Jim

Jim — Mon, 11 May 2009 21:11:59 +0000

Judy makes a good point.
Basic tendencies remain even when introverts act more like extroverts it does not change them, they are simply taking advantage of some benefits the other style enjoys.

In the same manner, when extroverts consider before speaking, focus on individual work and get it done they don't become introverts.

As an introvert, I do have fun verbally batting around extroverts. But, it is in fun.

You must be authentic, engaging, informative, interesting. If you aren't, you will be abandoned for the next blip on the radar." -Lisa Van Allen

The key for both introverts and extroverts is to be authentic, engaging, informative, interesting but understand that each will do it differently. We are unique. Introvert and Extrovert are only a small part of the mix. Each introvert will engage others differently. Listen to the small voice inside more that the debate outside.

Pat and I are both INTJ's but there are still vast differences in choice and style.

By: Pat

Pat — Mon, 11 May 2009 18:07:10 +0000

Nicely put Judie. Thanks.

By: judielise

judielise — Mon, 11 May 2009 16:42:07 +0000

From your treatment of the article, I don't think the author understands what "introvert" truly means. It sound like they are equating an addictive personality that communicates less through other venues as an "introverted" personality. It seems like more reactionary writing from people who don't really understand the definitions.